Many people are concerned about your online behavior. They question your suitability as a mother. Your role model status is at risk. This concern grows with each inappropriate TikTok post and lives that you stream. The platform is popular with young children. Even your own kids have access. Your actions have consequences. Your words carry weight. Both damage your reputation. Your children are affected too.
. They see a lack of proper care. The internet amplifies these concerns. Your family struggles are on full display. Many believe you are failing your children. You are setting a bad example. Your online presence worsens the situation.
Posting too much can cause harm. People don’t want to see explicit pictures. Imagine those images circulating. Being a good mom means protecting them from that. Be a better role model. Consider your family’s reputation. Why post your address online? That information is dangerous. People can use it to target you. Your family could be in danger because of this choice. Strangers now know where you live. This puts everyone at risk. It’s important to think about safety. Keep personal details offline. Protect yourself and your loved ones.
Picture this you’re not just dancing. You’re dancing live for thousands. They watch you on TikTok. A wide smile stretches across your face. You playfully dismiss something your teenage daughter said. Now you turn back to the screen. Your body sways. Your hands gesture for digital gifts. These gifts translate into real money. People comment, worried about your daughter. Is she okay? You keep dancing. You urge viewers to tap the screen.
You repeatedly enter relationships with men who are locked up. You even call yourself an “inmate hopper.” One of your husbands was a convicted murderer. He was serving a long 45-year sentence when you brought him into your daughters’ lives. You chose to present him as “dad.” This decision sends the wrong message to your children. It’s not right to make this situation seem normal. Introducing them to a man with a violent past can be confusing. Referring to him as their father figure could blur important boundaries. Your daughters might struggle to understand healthy relationships. They may think that this unconventional setup is okay. It’s crucial to protect children from potentially harmful influences. This situation could cause lasting emotional and psychological effects. Creating a stable and nurturing environment is key. You need to make choices that support their well-being above all else.
I truly hope this letter reaches you. My biggest wish is that it might shift how you see things. I want you to rethink who you are. I want you to become the caring mother they deserve. Your actions now have a huge impact. They shape who your daughters will become. Think about the memories you’re creating. Consider if those memories reflect the kind of parent you want to be. It is a challenge, but the reward is a stronger bond with your children.
From, Marissa Vasquez